あなた

Compound of あ (a, distal pronoun marker, indicating something far away from both speaker and listener; also found in あれ (are, “that”, far away), あそこ (asoko, “there”, far away), etc.) +‎ な (na, possessive, ancient compounding alternative for particle の (no)) +‎ た (ta, “direction, side, place”, only found in ancient terms).[1]

Originally meant that direction, that side (far away), in contrast to そなた (sonata, “that direction, that side, that place (closer to the listener)”), こなた (konata, “this direction, this side, this place (close to both listener and speaker)”), and どなた (donata, “which or what direction, side, or place”). Appears with this sense at least as early as the Kokin Wakashū of the late 900s,[1] and the Kagerō Nikki of 974 CE.[2]

The indirect and polite sense of that person is also evident in texts from the late 900s, including the Ochikubo Monogatari.[1]

The sense of you as a polite and indirect form of reference appears in texts from around the 1750s.[1]

• (Irregular reading)
  • (Tokyo) あな​た [ànáꜜtà] (Nakadaka – [2])[3][4]
  • (Tokyo) あ​なた [áꜜnàtà] (Atamadaka – [1])[3][4]
  • IPA^(key): [a̠na̠ta̠]

• The you and that person senses only ever have pitch accent 2. The that direction or side sense may have either pitch accent, with pitch accent 1 more common.

あなた (rōmaji anata)

1. 貴方, 貴女, 貴男: you (second-person pronoun)
   • 1908, 夏目漱石『夢十夜』

     「日 (ひ)が出 (で)るでしょう。それから日 (ひ)が沈 (しず)むでしょう。それからまた出 (で)るでしょう、そうしてまた沈 (しず)むでしょう。――赤 (あか)い日 (ひ)が東 (ひがし)から西 (にし)へ、東 (ひがし)から西 (にし)へと落 (お)ちて行 (い)くうちに、――あなた、待 (ま)っていられますか」

     “Hi ga deru deshō. sore kara hi ga shizumu deshō. Sore kara mata deru deshō, sōshite mata shizumu deshō. ――Akai hi ga higashi kara nishi e, higashi kara nishi e to ochiteiku uchi ni, ――Anata, matteiraremasu ka”

     "The sun will come out, yes? And then the sun will sink, yes? And then it will come out again, and it will sink again, yes? —While the red sun falls, from east to west, from east to west —Would you be able to wait it out?"

   1. 貴女: (to a female) you
   2. 貴男: (to a male) you
2. 貴方: (women's speech) dear, darling, sweetheart (term used by a wife to address her husband)
3. 貴方, 彼方: (uncommon) that person (far from both speaker and listener)
4. 彼方: (uncommon) that direction, that side, that place (far from both speaker and listener)

   山 (やま)の彼方 (あなた)

   yama no anata

   that side of the mountain, the far side of the mountain

   • 1943, 土井晩翠譯『オヂュッセーア』第二歌

     オヂュシュウス遠 (とほ)きあなたに亡 (ほろ)びたり、汝 (なんじ)も彼 (かれ)ともろともに死 (し)せば善 (よ)かりし！

     Ojushūsu tōki anata ni horobitari, nanji mo kare to morotomo ni shiseba yokarishi!

     Odysseus has perished in a far off land—if only you had died with him!

The you sense is spelled most often in hiragana in modern usage. The 貴方 spelling is gender-neutral. Alternative spellings include 貴女 when referring to females and 貴男 when referring to males.

あなた (anata) is the most neutral second-person singular pronoun. If names or titles are known, these are used more commonly when addressing people.

• あんた (anta, term of endearment)
• あなたたち (anatatachi, plural)

• お前 (まえ) (omae, “you”, singular, very informal)
• お前 (まえ)ら (omaera, “you”, plural, very informal)
• 貴様 (きさま) (kisama, “you”, singular, derogatory)
• 貴様 (きさま)ら (kisamara, “you”, plural, derogatory)