A Glass of Blessings

The central character and narrator, Wilmet Forsyth, is the thirty-three-year-old wife of a Civil Servant with a comfortable though routine life. She does not need to work and enjoys a life of leisure. When not lunching or shopping she occupies her time, somewhat guiltily, with occasional "good works", particularly at the instigation of Sybil, her slightly eccentric do-gooder mother-in-law. She becomes drawn into the social life of her church, St. Luke's, and there makes a change for the good in the lives of two other characters. One is when the kleptomaniac Wilf Bason has to resign from the Ministry where her husband Rodney works and she arranges for Wilf to become housekeeper at the clergy house. The other is her support for Mary, a ‘mousy’ worshipper, who eventually goes to live for a trial period in a convent.

After a church service one day, Wilmet renews acquaintance with her close friend Rowena’s attractive but ne'er-do-well brother, Piers Longridge. She develops a romantic interest in Piers, and begins to believe that he is her secret admirer. What Wilmet fails to realise is that Piers is gay until she becomes aware of his relationship with Keith, a lower-class young man with a Leicester accent. But Keith comes in useful later, helping her to choose furniture after she and Rodney have to find somewhere new to live following Sybil's remarriage, whose house they had shared since their own marriage. The move brings Rodney and Wilmet more together at the same time as troubles are resolved for some of the other characters too.

A Glass of Blessings was Pym's fifth novel and was published by Jonathan Cape in 1958. Pym's working title for the novel was The Clergy House [1]. The novel's portrayal of a homosexual relationship was noted by the contemporary review in The Daily Telegraph as unusual for the era [2]. The book received less critical attention than Pym's previous novels, and she noted in a diary entry that none of the reviews was "wholly good". Pym noted that the reviews described her as "tone-deaf to dialogue" and "moderately amusing" [3]. Pym later recalled that - of her first six novels - Glass was the worst reviewed [4]. The novel sold 3,071 copies in its first printing, which was less than any of Pym's previous novels. [5].

The novel was first published in the United States by E.P. Dutton in 1980. Hachette released the novel as an audiobook in 2012, read by Patience Tomlinson. The novel was published in Germany in 1995 as Ein Glas voll Segen, in Spain in 2010 as Los hombres de Wilmet, and in Italy in 2012 as Un sacco di benedizioni.

Barbara Pym often resorted to various kinds of intertextuality in order to give her novels added depth and relevance. In the case of A Glass of Blessings, the title is taken from a line in George Herbert’s poem "The Pulley", which is quoted and commented on in this novel’s final chapter. In the poem, when God first made man and, "having a glass of blessings standing by", all its contents were poured on him except rest, since otherwise he would not appreciate the others with which he was endowed. It is this theme, that a life that does not run smoothly is itself a glass of blessings, that Wilmet has satisfaction in applying to all that has happened to her. There is also an ironical reference back to the source of Wilmet Forsyth's name, which is taken from the heroine of Charlotte M. Yonge's The Pillars of the House. There Yonge's Wilmet Underwood was the mainstay of her family, while the performance of Pym's narrator falls rather short of her achievement.[6]

Another form of intertextuality is the way characters from one Pym novel reappear in another. In his introduction to A Glass of Blessings, John Bayley refers to it as "one of her most engaging devices".[7] Rodney and Wilmet Forsyth had already made a cameo appearance in Jane and Prudence (1953). Now Prudence serves as catalyst to the renewed closeness between Wilmet and Rodney. Prudence works, Rodney confesses, in the same Ministry as him and he had taken her out to dinner on two occasions. This prompts Wilmet to admit to previously unmentioned lunches with Rowena’s husband Harry and with Piers. Their stiff conversation then dissolves "into helpless laughter, so that an elderly woman, coming into the lounge to retrieve the knitting she had left there before dinner, retreated quickly and with a look of alarm on her face." Julian and Winifred Malory from Excellent Women (1952) are also mentioned in A Glass of Blessings, as well as Rocky Napier, whom both Wilmet and Rowena remember as a love interest during their war service in Italy. Archdeacon Hoccleve from Pym's debut novel, Some Tame Gazelle makes an appearance, and the character of Catherine Oliphant from Less than Angels is mentioned. The names of two other characters, Oswald Thames and Wilf Bason, were eventually recycled in A Few Green Leaves (1980).

The subject of homosexuality is not infrequent in Pym's work, but it is usually referred to in oblique and subtle ways. This novel is surprisingly frank about the subject, especially for a comedy of manners published in 1958. The reader can reach no conclusion other than that Piers and Keith live together in a romantic relationship.[8]

The British class structure, which was gradually fading out at the time the novel was published, is essential to the interactions between the characters, like Wilf Bason, who cooks for a house full of celibate priests. The heroine's lifestyle also appears outmoded to today's reader.[9]

A Glass of Blessings was broadcast by BBC 4 in 1991 in an adaptation by Valerie Windsor, produced by Barbara Pym's sister Hilary and the actress Elizabeth Proud.[10]

• Orna Raz - Social Dimensions in the Novels of Barbara Pym, 1949-1962: the Writer as Hidden Observer (2007)