Etiquette in Latin America

Brazil

• Brazilians speak Portuguese (and usually do not refer to it as "Brazilian Portuguese", even though some expressions and spelling can be very different of European Portuguese; there is even a joke about other Brazilians over the people of Rio de Janeiro that they "do not really speak Portuguese", with many phonological differences given how their accent was influenced by Portugal's variant), not Spanish. Addressing someone who speaks Portuguese in Spanish, although most Brazilians understand Spanish to a reasonable degree, may be considered very offensive.^[4][5]
• In Brazil, a form of the American "okay" gesture is obscene when directed at someone with the symbol upside down (back of hands down, circle forward to someone, rest of fingers to your self pointing any side), implying something like "go f... yourself!". However, the standard "okay" gesture is also used, as is the "thumbs up" gesture.^[6]
• The gesture of "flipping someone off" by hitting the wrist against the inside of the elbow (sometimes called "a banana" in Brazil) is considered playful and not very offensive (in some other parts of the world, this is more akin to "the finger").^[6]
• Giving someone of the opposite gender a gift may be easily misinterpreted as a romantic overture, except for birthdays.^[7]
• In some parts of the country, most notably in rural or suburban areas in which homes may not have doorbells, the appropriate action is to stand in the yard and clap one's hands. If no one comes to the door, then the visitor may approach the door, knock, and then step back away from the door and await a response. This is especially applicable in regards to small, thin-walled cottages that offer less privacy than homes in North America.^[6]
• The hand signal used in the U.S. to indicate “okay” is a rude gesture in Brazil.^[8]

Haiti

• Although tied more closely to France than to Spain or Portugal, the etiquette regarding Haiti is similar to other Latin American countries.^[9]
• Haitians take proper behavior seriously and this includes good manners, clean appearances at all times, a moderate tone in one's speech and avoidance of any profanity or public "scenes", as these are all important indicators of one's social class.^[10]
• Entering a household and not greeting the elders or owners of the household is regarded as highly offensive.^[9] Say bonjou (good morning) or bonswa (good afternoon) when entering a room or passing by someone on the street.^[11][12]
• Eating is considered a social event and so withdrawing from the center of activities during meals is considered slightly offensive.^[9][13]
• At restaurants, the one who extended the invitation pays the bill. Unless another woman is present, a woman should not buy dinner for a man. Making arrangements for payment before the meal is considered especially polite. When summoning a server, make eye contact; waving or calling their names is very impolite.^[13][14]
• At the dining table, the European etiquette applies; ladies sit first, fork on the left, elbows off the table, etc.^[13] When utensils are not being used, a person's hands are expected to be visible above the table resting the wrists on top of the table and not at one's lap. Diners are expected to stay at the table for the entire meal; no bathroom breaks.^[13][14]
• While dining, for making a toast, the most common toast is sante (to your health). When beginning to eat wait until after the host says "bon appetit!" ("enjoy your meal!").^[13]
• Relationships are important to Haitians, so business discussions should be saved until the end of the meal, or for later.^[14]
• Avoid discussing politics, corruptions within the government, and Dominican life, without having a good understanding of the issues as well as the people with whom one is discussing it, and until one has established a relationship with the listener. These are touchy subjects to speak about, especially if one does not know what one is talking about.^[15]
• The infamous Haitian Creole phrase Langyèt Maman'w is highly offensive, insulting one's mother. Uttering this to someone will almost certainly provoke conflict.^[9]
• It is rude to point at someone.^[15][16]
• Haitians expect to barter when making a purchase.^[9]
• Men shake hands on meeting and departing. Men and women kiss on the cheek when greeting. Women kiss each other on the cheek. Friends, family and close acquaintances usually share a light kiss on the cheek.^[9]
• When attending church (whether it be Roman Catholic or Protestant), one's best formal shoes and clothes are to be worn.^[17]
• Punctuality in an informal setting is not highly valued and being late is usually not considered rude.^[15][16]
• People holding hands is an ordinary display of friendship though women and men, but seldom show public affection toward the opposite sex but are affectionate in private. It is also common for people of the same sexes to hold hands, and is often mistakenly viewed as homosexuality to outsiders.^[9]
• Children are to be seen and not heard; not to draw attention to one's self.

^[18] It is especially disrespectful for children to whistle, point,^[15] suck their teeth,^[19] stare,^[20] or to roll their eyes at adults. Children should also avoid sitting with their legs crossed and acting like an adult.^[21]

• Flatulence, when company is present, is very rude and should be done in another unoccupied place. It is polite to say "excusez-moi" (Haitian Creole: eskize'm), which means "excuse me".^[9]