Mumsnet

Mumsnet was created by Justine Roberts who came up with the idea of a website to help parents pool information and advice following a disastrous first family holiday with her one-year-old twins. Once back in the UK, Roberts persuaded friends Carrie Longton and Steven Cassidy to help her build the site that is now regarded as one of the most influential women's sites in the UK.[2] In November 2009, the Prime Minister Gordon Brown, opposition leader David Cameron and many leading ministers took part in live webchats with Mumsnet users.

Mumsnet's 10th birthday party was hosted by Google UK at their London headquarters in March 2010. Guests included Ed Miliband and Steve Hilton, and both the then Prime Minister, Gordon Brown, and his wife Sarah Brown gave speeches. Gordon Brown referred to Mumsnet as one of the great British institutions.[3] In May 2011 Roberts founded Gransnet,[4][5] a sister site to Mumsnet for the over-50s.

Roberts, CEO, was named in the Media Guardian's 2010 power 100.[6] In February 2013 Roberts and co-founder, Carrie Longton, were assessed as the 7th most powerful women in the United Kingdom by Woman's Hour on BBC Radio 4.[6] Roberts was appointed Commander of the Order of the British Empire (CBE) in the 2017 New Year Honours for services to the economy.[7]

In 2018 Mumsnet had 1.3 billion page views from 119 million unique users, and revenue of £8.6 million.[8]

In April 2020, Mumsnet announced a premium option.[9]

In November 2009, newspaper articles spoke of the forthcoming UK general election as "the Mumsnet election",[10][11][12] in part because mothers were regarded by politicians as key floating voters and online forums were seen as arenas in which their votes could be courted.[13] Then prime minister, Gordon Brown,[14][15] and the leader of the opposition, David Cameron,[16][17] appeared on the website's webchats in quick succession, and this was widely reported. The site faced a barrage of publicity, not all of it favourable.[18] Others have been dismissive of the importance of the site to politicians, suggesting Mumsnet users comprise a relatively narrow demographic. Toby Young argued that the site is full of Guardian readers and "peopled exclusively by university-educated, upper-middle-class women who are only "swing voters" in the sense that they swing between voting Labour, Lib Dem and Green".[19]

As well as traditional advertising space around the edges of the talkboard, Mumsnet sells to advertisers the opportunity to populate the talkboard with discussions that act as product placement. Some of these are sponsored Q&A threads relevant to products being marketed; others are "product tests" where site users offer feedback about a product after being given free samples. Very often, though, sponsored threads just offer a light-hearted or humorous question to provoke chat that is related to a product and which keeps the product name prominent in the site's list of conversations. This kind of advertorial content makes the site function in much the same way as the old-style Tupperware party: women's social networks and conversation spaces are adapted to become a marketplace in which social bonds serve commercial purposes.

In 2010, the Advertising Standards Authority extended its Code of Advertising Practice to include a requirement that paid-for promotional content on social media should be clearly identifiable as an advertisement . Responding to that requirement, Mumsnet began to mark product placement discussions as "sponsored threads". However, during the website's first ten years there was no systematic distinction between discussions that were paid for by advertisers and discussions that were authentically user-generated.

The site has hosted webchats with celebrities and politicians. Prime Minister David Cameron was challenged over the provision of free nappies for disabled children[20] and UKIP leader Nigel Farage told Mumsnetters that a UKIP MEP Godfrey Bloom was "100% right" to say that "no self-respecting small businessman with a brain in the right place would ever employ a lady of child-bearing age."[21] Jeremy Corbyn and John Mcdonnell have both faced questions about Labour's Brexit policy and anti-semitism.[22]

Jamie Oliver, Dawn French, Gok Wan and Clare Balding have all also taken part in Mumsnet webchats.[23][24] Hillary Clinton did a video Q&A in 2014.[25]

Mumsnet has published several parenting books, based largely on the advice posted by the site's users since its launch in June 2000. These are Pregnancy: The Mumsnet Guide (2009),[28] Toddlers: The Mumsnet Guide (2009)[29] and Babies: The Mumsnet Guide (2010).[30] Their latest parenting guide The Mumsnet Rules[31] was published in 2011.

Other publications include: a cookbook titled Top Bananas!: The Best Ever Family Recipes from Mumsnet (2014),[32] The Book of Bedtime Stories (2013)[33] and How to Blitz Nits and Other Nasties (2017).[34]

In April 2006, lawyers acting for "childcare guru" and former maternity nurse Gina Ford contacted Mumsnet, when some of the bulletins shifted from discussing Gina Ford's methods and advice to making personal attacks on her and her family. Her lawyers claimed that she was being libelled regularly and requested immediate removal of the posts in question. After 12 months of discussion Mumsnet settled the dispute by apologising publicly to Gina Ford and making a contribution to her legal costs.[35] In November 2010, Mumsnet co-founder Justine Roberts wrote to Prime Minister David Cameron, urging reform of the draft Defamation Bill to address the rise of online publication.[36][37]

Mumsnet has initiated several national campaigns, and publicly supports a number of causes related to parenting. Both the Let Toys Be Toys and Let Books Be Books campaigns had their roots in Mumsnet online discussions.[38][39]

In response to forum users' experience with care and support in the NHS for miscarried pregnancies, Mumsnet launched its Campaign for Better Miscarriage Care;[40] the campaign proposes a series of recommendations for improvement of the treatment of miscarrying parents in the Mumsnet Miscarriage Code of Care,[41] which was drawn up in consultation with its users.

In January 2010, the site launched its Let Girls Be Girls campaign. The campaign challenged retailers to ensure that they did not contribute to the premature sexualisation of children through their products and marketing.[42] In December 2010 Let Girls Be Girls was extended, and called for an end to the display of 'Lads' Mags' in children's view. This received the support of the main UK magazine retailers, with the exception of WHSmith.[43]

In January 2011 Riven Vincent, a regular Mumsnet user with a severely disabled child, received widespread media attention after posting on the site about her despair in the face of local budget cuts.[44][45][46] In response to Vincent's plight, Mumsnet launched its Respite Care campaign, which calls on local authorities to provide adequate short breaks for families with disabled children.[47]

In June 2013, the site launched a campaign to end sales representatives on maternity wards,[48] following numerous complaints of bad practice and a user survey which found that 82% found it unacceptable for commercial companies to access new mothers on hospital wards. The campaign called on members to write to their local NHS Trusts and MPs, as well as to share their stories of run-ins with sales reps. In response, a number of NHS Trusts across the UK cancelled or revised their contracts with commercial companies and over 75 MPs signed an Early Day Motion calling for a ban on sales reps in wards.[49]

In August 2013, the site launched an awareness-raising campaign This Is My Child,[50] which aimed to support parents of children with additional needs by opening up a conversation about how the general public can help to make the lives of those caring for children with additional needs easier. The site produced a myth-busting guide to additional needs for the public, supporting material produced by its users and partner organisations (Mencap, Contact a Family and Every Disabled Child Matters); and hosted a series of blogs and webchats on parenting a child with additional needs.

In May 2017, the site launched a new campaign called 'Better Postnatal Care: Aftercare, not Afterthought'.[51] which aimed to address the major failings in the current postnatal care system found in their 2017 survey.[52]

In March 2012, Fathers4Justice launched a campaign highlighting Mumsnet's alleged anti-male agenda. The campaign included a naked protest at Marks and Spencer, one of Mumsnet's advertisers, with the protestors stating it was an attempt to draw attention to the "naked truth" that Mumsnet promotes gender hatred. Matt O'Connor from the organisation said that "When you look at the language being used in some of these forums, you can see how unacceptable it would be if it was aimed towards other races or sexualities, but it seems to be widely accepted against men."[53]

Although not a direct criticism as such, the forum has been portrayed as being populated by pushy/anxious mothers, including on TV comedy shows such as Outnumbered and Bad Education.[54]

In 2018, Mumsnet introduced new rules regarding discussion of transgender issues after controversy surrounding allegations of allowing transphobic discussion, a move which was seen as a positive by LGBT activists but faced criticism for restricting the use of the terms cisgender and TERF.[55] Eve Livingston writing for Vice described the forum as a "Toxic Hotbed of Transphobia".[56] Edie Miller wrote on The Outline in 2018 that "Mumsnet is to British transphobia more like what 4Chan is to American fascism. The tendencies were already there, but a messageboard to amplify them and recruit people to the cause never hurts."[57]

In 2018, Catriona Jones of the University of Hull alleged that websites such as Mumsnet which focus on the graphic and negative accounts of childbirth have led to a rise in tokophobia (fear of childbirth) in Britain.[58]

In October 2019, Upfield, the makers of Flora, withdrew from a "Mumsnet rated" promotional agreement after campaigners drew attention to transphobic content on the site.[59]

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